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Post by Business on Oct 6, 2016 4:10:19 GMT
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Post by Margret on Oct 19, 2016 19:43:46 GMT
My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. We had been friends during college, and we became FWBs before moving into a relationship. He moved to another state to go to school and we continued dating long distance until a few months ago, when I moved to his state to live with him. Now we are living together and working, but since I moved down here our sex life has taken a nasty blow.
We've always had a very active sex life--we are both very driven, enthusiastic, and with high libidos. But lately he's been coming up with excuses, it's always something: I'm too tired, my mind is into it but my body is tired, new job, no job, stress, you name it. Finally I told him to stop and get honest with me because to me it's clear: he isn't interested. He said he doesn't feel comfortable saying he's uninterested because he's afraid of hurting my feelings.
Well, guess what, I'm hurt! I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. We have endless conversations about what we both need sexually and personally. He never takes my bait when I initiate, and initiate I try--it's just always "bad timing." I force myself to get into it when he's ready because I know if I don't, I won't get the opportunity to have sex for who knows how long. I do everything he wants to do. He says he's frustrated because he feels "trapped," like the only way he can show he loves me is through sex--but to me, without sex, were glorified roommates. No romance. Nothing more.
Since we moved in together it's gone from once a day to maybe once a week. He even stopped sleeping naked and flirting with me.
I believe in sacrifices, and I left home, health care, good paying work, friends, and family for him. I force myself into it when I'm not feeling it because I value the intimacy, and he doesn't. I do things he wants to do in and out of the bedroom, even if it causes me to have panic attacks, because it's valuable to him AND I LOVE HIM. Why isn't he interested anymore?!?
TL;DR, moved in with long term boyfriend, he lost interest in me because sex doesn't have the emotional weight for him that it does for me, I've tried everything, don't know what to do.
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Post by Nick Lin on Oct 19, 2016 20:10:33 GMT
Hey Margret!
Sometimes my girlfriend gets bored of me, in which case she spends time with her physical boyfriend, while I still cater to her emotional needs. For some people, the need for variety weighs heavily on them, have you perhaps entertained the idea of an open relationship?
Hope this advice helps!
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Post by paul s wright on Oct 19, 2016 20:59:24 GMT
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Post by Business on Oct 20, 2016 13:53:34 GMT
Hahahaha this is insane. More please!
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Post by Business on Oct 20, 2016 13:59:31 GMT
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